I have lived in the Pacific Northwest (the PNW, if you will) my entire life. From Idaho to Washington to Oregon, I’ve resided in every state that makes up this very special region of the USA. So, no one could fault you for thinking I’m a little biased when I say that I believe this to be one of the most magical places in the entire world (and I’ve done my fair share of traveling). The Pacific Northwest is a wonderland full of fairytale forests, dreamy coastlines, epic mountains, incredible waterfalls, and myriad other magnificent landscapes that make for the perfect backdrop to an adventure elopement or wedding. It’s no wonder folks come from all around to not only visit this place, but also to commemorate some significant life moments here, like getting married.
That said, the logistics of getting married in a place that isn’t your home base – or that may even be entirely new to you – can understandably seem intimidating. How do you pick a specific location? What season should you target? What are the requirements to make sure your marriage is legally legit in the place you have your ceremony? How do you find vendors that align with your vision and your values?
There are so many things to consider, but I don’t say any of this to overwhelm you. Quite the contrary: If you’ve hired – or are planning to hire – a PNW photographer who specializes in elopements, they should be able to help you with all of this and more! Still, if you’re thinking of eloping in the PNW, it’s a good idea to have an understanding of some key considerations to help you along the way.
Note: For this guide, I’m focusing on Washington and Oregon, as these are the states that I work in the most and that I’ve helped the most out-of-state couples elope in. Essentially, these are my personal main areas of expertise! However, I (and many others!) also consider Idaho and Northern California to be part of the PNW, and they’re just as worthy of consideration for an elopement. Many of these guidelines apply to Idaho and Northern California as well, but I recommend working in depth with your photographer and/or planner to ensure you’re fully prepared for whichever state/region you end up choosing.
All right, let’s dive into it!
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Why You Should Consider A PNW Elopement PNW Weather + Seasons Locations To Consider For Your PNW Elopement Travel Tips for the PNW Marriage License Info |
If you’re reading this, then you may already be convinced that the PNW is an ideal place for a wedding adventure. But in case you’re on the fence – or maybe this is the first time you’ve heard of this region – let’s break down some of the best reasons to consider the PNW for your elopement.
The Pacific Northwest is known for its extensive public lands, with more than 30% of Washington and 53% of Oregon managed by the Federal government. This unique region has 16 National Forests, 59 District Offices (e.g. BLM managed areas), a National Scenic Area, and a National Grassland – all of which add up to 24.7 million acres. And these public lands come in a huge range of environments.
Here in the PNW, we’ve got everything from rugged coastlines, temperate rainforests, green river valleys, volcanic mountains, and even expansive desert. And I’d be remiss not to mention our mountain ranges: We’ve got the Coast Mountains (includes the Olympic Range to Siskiyou Mountains), Cascades Range (extends from Southern British Columbia to Northern California, and includes the North Cascades, Mount Rainier, Mount St Helens, Mount Hood, and other notable ranges and peaks), and the Blue Mountains (largely in NE Oregon and into SE Washington, and includes the Ochoco Mountains, Wallowa Mountains, and many other ranges).
All in all, the PNW has almost every kind of landscape you can imagine, all within this one little corner of the United States. So, whether you envision saying your vows at the top of a mountain, at the base of a roaring waterfall, or under the green canopy of a rainforest, you’ll find it here.
All of these amazing landscapes are wonderful, but how easy are they to access?* Let’s talk about it!
Given the huge amount of public lands in the PNW, there’s quite a lot of options for elopement locations, all with varying levels of difficulty to access.
While there do exist areas that are very remote and hard to get to, there are also tons of areas that are much easier to access, have no or low cost entry requirements, are well-maintained, and still offer incredible views and connection to natural spaces. And while one might assume that the most easily accessed areas are bound to be overrun by other visitors, in my experience, there’s a multitude of locations where you can find some solitude so long as you know where to look (and when to be there).
For example, on the Olympic Peninsula, you can have a day that starts with epic mountain views at sunrise, then visit a rainforest, hike to a waterfall, and finally watch the sunset from a rugged coastal beach – all with minimal other people around and without driving more than 2-3 hours between locations (and in most cases, an hour or less). There are many other places in the PNW like this, where you can experience quiet and solitude in multiple different landscapes all in the span of a few hours!
This is where working with someone local to the region you’re thinking about getting married in comes in super handy. Folks who specialize in a particular area will be able to help you identify locations that work best for what you’re dreaming of for your own elopement. They’re also likely to be really honest with you about the challenges and realities of some of the locations you’ve maybe seen on social media – and how they may not actually be the best choice for an intimate wedding celebration.
*Important: When I talk about “access” here, I’m mostly talking about infrastructure and the ability to *get to* many trailheads, parks, and other outdoor spaces by car, bicycle, or foot. There are many other things to consider when we talk about accessibility to the outdoors that are not purely about infrastructure and physical access to trailheads (e.g. barriers to the outdoors caused by things like the cost of passes and permits, trail maintenance issues, lack of ADA accessible trail options, and the representation, safety, and inclusion of marginalized groups in the outdoors as a whole), and it’s important to acknowledge that, while there has been some wonderful work done here to address some of these things, the PNW still has a lot of growing to do in many of these areas. A photographer or planner who specializes in the PNW can help you navigate these particular access considerations and help you find the best location(s) so you can focus on enjoying your day and being present with your partner.
In general, the PNW has mild weather. The winters here are cold and wet, while summers are warm and dry. Mountain areas see regular snowfall (in fact, the upper mountain elevations receive the highest amount of snow in the continental U.S.), and more western and northern areas of the region (ie western Washington and Oregon) receive the most rainfall in the continental United States. You’ll find that things become warmer and dryer as you move through eastern Washington and Oregon, into Idaho. Overall, the entire area that makes up the PNW is defined as temperate, and extremes in temperatures and precipitation are unusual.
What does this mean for you, if you’re considering a PNW elopement? I’ll cover more of this in the “Weather + Seasons” section, but a quick tl;dr is two main points:
First, it means that we’ve got a pretty extended window when it comes to elopement season in most areas. Technically, you could get married outdoors in the PNW any time of year, depending on the specific area. And realistically, the PNW’s best seasons for an adventure elopement in the outdoors are typically going to be March/April through October/November. This is a huge window of time that provides a lot of possibilities for an outdoor wedding or elopement.
Second, it means that very rarely are you going to be contending with extreme weather conditions. One of the biggest considerations for a PNW elopement is the potential for rain, but even then, it’s not often that folks are having to plan for truly harsh weather.
That said, it’s definitely important to be prepared for the weather here, and aside from rain being a very real possibility throughout the year in many places, there’s also the potential for very hot days in the summer months, snow in mountainous regions, and a pretty regularly occurring fire season. Again, what you need to plan for depends heavily on the specific location and region you’re getting married in, but your elopement photographer or planner should have knowledge of the weather considerations for your particular celebration and help you prepare accordingly.
One of the best things about getting married in the PNW, I think, is the ability to find inclusive vendors. While I won’t pretend that the PNW is immune from racism, sexism, homophobia, ableism, and other forms of discrimination and prejudice (it’s definitely not; in fact, this area has a very problematic history and arguably, is often not the safe haven for underrepresented groups that it often touts itself to be), I will say that I’ve noticed – in the western part of the PNW in particular – there’s a growing community of inclusivity-minded wedding vendors (for example, the Altared PDX organization) who are trying to not only run their businesses in a more aware and equitable way, but are also trying to work together to change the wedding industry as a whole.
If you’re not sure where to start in identifying and connecting with vendors that match your values and needs, check with your elopement photographer or planner. Many folks (myself included) have a referral list of people they’ve personally worked with and can point you in the direction of other vendors who will validate and celebrate you and your partner.
There’s also a number of resources online where you can easily find inclusive vendors, both here in the PNW and elsewhere. Just to name a few:
Now that we’ve covered the “why” of having a destination PNW elopement, let’s talk more about the when, where, and how.
Let’s dive into the details of PNW seasons to give you a feel for what to expect and start brainstorming which months you might want to elope.
Keep in mind that there are many different regions within the PNW, and they don’t all experience the same weather during each season. Additionally, I’ll be sharing some averages in regards to rainfall and temperatures for certain regions, but of course, those can vary from year to year as well. It’s really important that you do some research into the specific location you’re thinking of getting married to ensure you understand what to expect and can have the best experience possible.
Months:
March, April, May
Average precipitation for the season:
Pros of eloping during the spring season in the PNW:
Cons of eloping during the spring season in the PNW:
Places to consider eloping in the PNW during spring:
Months:
June, July, August
Average precipitation for the season:
Pros of eloping during the summer season in the PNW:
Cons of eloping during the summer season in the PNW:
Places to consider eloping in the PNW during summer:
Months:
September, October, November
Average precipitation for the season:
Pros of eloping during the fall season in the PNW:
Cons of eloping during the fall season in the PNW:
Places to consider eloping in the PNW during fall:
Months:
December, January, February
Average precipitation for the season:
Pros of eloping during the winter season in the PNW:
Cons of eloping during the winter season in the PNW:
Places to consider eloping in the PNW during winter:
All right! Now that you’ve got a general idea of the weather and seasons in the PNW, let’s chat more about locations.
As you probably have gathered by now, there’s a huge number of locations in the PNW that can serve as gorgeous backdrops for an intimate wedding celebration. And the variety here is immense!
No matter if you’re planning a “just us” day, or looking forward to celebrating with your closest loved ones…
No matter if you want to explore multiple types of scenery and engage in lots of different activities, or you’d rather have a low key experience in one location with a focus on relaxation and being present together…
No matter if you want to get down in the dirt and go on a hiking/kayaking/climbing/some other outdoorsy adventure, or if you’d rather be able to drive or ride to your location(s) while still having an experience that’ll get your heart rate up in a totally different way (like with breathtaking views)…
The point is, no matter what you’re planning for your elopement experience, it’s highly likely the PNW has got the perfect location to serve as the setting for your one-of-a-kind wedding adventure (in whatever “adventure” means to you!).
Here are a handful of my own favorite better-known locations for a PNW elopement. Keep in mind that many photographers and planners who specialize in elopements (like myself) will also have “hidden gem” spots to share with you once we get to know you more, understand better who you are, and can then make personalized suggestions for elopement locations that are truly matched to the experience you’re dreaming of.
Let’s dive in!
One of my all-time favorite places, not only for elopements, but in the entire PNW, Olympic National Park (ONP) is home to a huge array of landscapes. It has almost anything you could possibly want for an epic backdrop: Waterfalls, mountains, ocean beaches, lakes, rivers, rainforests…it’s a pretty incredible and special place. And you can often see multiple types of scenery all in one day!
Another of my favorites, the San Juan Islands are located in upper Puget Sound, just south of the Canadian border. This is inarguably a very cool location, made up of more than 170 islands! The main islands – and the ones that you’ll typically hear of most – are Lopez Island, Orcas Island, and San Juan Island. Orcas is a personal favorite spot and has some really amazing trails and views. The San Juan Islands are only accessible by ferry, so make sure your elopement photographer and/or planner are familiar with the ferry system and can help you with planning the logistics around that.
This is one of the places a lot of people think of first when they talk about eloping in the PNW. And for good reason! The North Cascades are magnificent, with multiple trail options of varying difficulties, most with stunning views. If you want a quintessentially PNW mountain vibe for your elopement, you can’t go wrong with the North Cascades.
Mount Rainier is another spot you’ve probably heard of if you’ve spent any amount of time looking into eloping in Washington state. Fun fact: Rainier is the highest volcanic peak in the contiguous United States! And the park is covered in super accessible trails with epic views of the mountain. Wildflower season here can be a great time to visit, but fall is also marvelous, with almost surreal foliage colors.
I don’t think Mount St. Helens gets enough credit for being a great option for a PNW elopement, which is a shame, because it’s a beautiful and unique mountain! Other than the history of its catastrophic explosion (one of the greatest ever recorded in North America), Mount St. Helens has some really unique and awe-inspiring scenery. You can find areas where wildflowers and meadows run right up against rugged, rocky plains. It’s a really special spot that I don’t see featured in “best places to elope” lists very often. While I wouldn’t call it a hidden gem, it does see fewer visitors each year than places like Mount Rainier.
The number of incredible outdoor locations within a less-than-hour’s drive of Seattle is immense. I’m purposely leaving this broad, because trying to name even a fraction of them would make this already huge guide even huger. That said, I have a couple personal favorite spots around the Seattle area, including Snoqualmie Falls and Rattlesnake Lake.
Oh, do I have a soft spot for the northern Oregon Coast! You’ve probably heard of Cannon Beach, Astoria, and Tillamook. All of these areas are gorgeous, but I’d add some places even further down the northern coastline, like Lincoln City and Depoe Bay. The scenery in the northern part of the coast is diverse, and in most places you can find a beautiful combination of forests and beaches. The northern coast is also home to huge expanses of sand dunes, including one of the largest in North America (The Oregon Dunes National Recreation Area).
Similar to the northern Oregon Coast, the southern Oregon Coast has a fantastic mixture of landscapes and scenery. In one day you can easily visit the redwoods, and then walk along an ocean beach. I tend to describe the spots on the southern coast as feeling more rugged than the northern coast, with lots of rock formations, cliff sides, and forest. If you’re looking for a dramatic, moody PNW coast feel, the southern Oregon Coast is a great option.
I’m a little biased perhaps, but Mount Hood is my favorite mountain. Aside from cool facts, like it being the highest point in the whole state of Oregon and the second most climbed mountain in the entire world, it’s just an absolutely beautiful location. It’s also really accessible for pretty much the entire year, with activities for everyone from beginner outdoorists to folks who’ve been spending time outdoors their whole lives.
Technically this one could fall under Washington too, but in an effort to not be redundant, I’m putting it under Oregon. The Columbia River Gorge runs along the border of Oregon and Washington, and is home to more than 90 waterfalls, dozens of trails with sweeping views of the river and surrounding hills, and beautiful wildlife all year round. It’s particularly stunning in the spring and fall, when you can catch wildflowers blooming and experience all the hillsides turning beautiful golden hues.
The Bend and Sunriver area of Oregon is a really special and unique area with diverse landscapes. This area is high desert, so you’ll see very different wildlife and scenery than further west in the state. There’s lava flows, red rock, raging rivers, alpine forests, and mountains in almost every direction. You can even explore caves here! It’s a popular outdoor tourist location, and for good reason. And all that amazing scenery makes for breathtaking backdrops to an elopement.
Crater Lake is one of those places where, when you see the images, you might think “that looks incredible…but is it really that incredible in person?” And I’m here to tell you, yes, it really really is. And even better. Crater Lake is the deepest lake in the United States (102 feet!), and it’s got an unbelievable blue color and impeccable clarity. It’s a popular place for elopements, which is no surprise considering its undeniable beauty. It can also be a tricky place to plan for any outdoor activity, because the weather can be unpredictable. There’s a fairly small window of time each year that the road to the lake is even open, so make sure that if you plan to elope at this location, you check on road and trail conditions (and work with a photographer and planner who are familiar with Crater Lake).
Now that you have a feel for when and where you might want to elope in the PNW, what about the how? Let’s talk about some of the all-important logistics of eloping, and go over some travel tips for getting to and around the PNW.
There’s a number of logistics a person has to consider when traveling anywhere, and when you add in the extra consideration of also getting married while traveling, it can start to feel a little overwhelming. A lot of elopement photographers and planners will help you through some of this, but here’s a few general things to keep in mind when planning to travel to the PNW for your intimate wedding.
The Seattle-Tacoma International Airport is about 30 minutes from downtown Seattle and is one of the most connected airports in the PNW. It’s very easy to fly in and out of from multiple locations, with lots of non-stop options to/from locations all over the U.S. It’s location is pretty wonderful for a lot of ideal elopement spots in Washington, including:
The Portland International Airport is about 30 minutes (depending on traffic) from downtown Portland. It, like SeaTac, has many options for non-stop flights to and from dozens of domestic and international locations. It also is ideally located for accessing many wonderful elopement spots in Oregon, including:
The PNW is very driveable in general, so grabbing a rental car is always a great option – especially if you’re planning to explore any of the national and state parks. Truly, a car is your best bet for getting around here if you’re traveling to a spot that’s further away from a larger town or city. That said, there’s definitely other options for getting around out here, for both long and short distance ventures. Keep in mind, this is a very short and general list. There’s definitely options beyond this, so be sure to do your research and ask for help from your planner/photographer for your particular elopement plans.
Amtrak is a great option for both scenic train rides and also getting from one place to another across longer distances. That said, this is not the sort of train system you should rely on for regular day-to-day commuting. Routes are limited and specific, so I’d recommend checking the route maps and reserving tickets ahead of time.
Both Uber and Lyft have decent presences in both Washington and Oregon. Though, like most other places in the U.S., you’ll have best luck with this transportation option closer to cities and larger towns. I wouldn’t recommend relying on a rideshare app in more rural towns near some of the national parks, and again, a rental car will serve you better if you’re planning to adventure in the outdoors.
This is a more broad recommendation and has a very specific use case, but know that there are often shuttling options (and in some places, requirements) for accessing certain trails and scenic areas. Using shuttles can help ensure you don’t have to contend with parking at busier trailheads. It also helps stem the flow of traffic into the more heavily used areas, which can be nice for limiting crowds (again, this is situational, and some parks are just always more likely to be crowded, especially during warmer months). If you’re thinking of eloping in a more popular area of the PNW, check into shuttles, and ask your planner/photographer for help if you think you may need to utilize this option for transportation. They’ll likely have recommendations for timing and other logistics to make the process as easy as possible.
Both Seattle and Portland have great bus and train systems for getting around the city. These are pretty limited to the cities themselves, but can still be helpful if you’re planning on eloping somewhere in the metro area. Both cities actually do have some beautiful outdoor parks within city limits that are accessible by transit! This is also a good option for justgetting around beyond your elopement day while you’re visiting the PNW.
I’ll start this section by saying it’s really important that you do your own research and make sure you understand the requirements for getting legally married, no matter the location you choose. What I share below is based on information I’ve pulled from official county websites, but rules and regulations can change over time. It’s vital that you check what is required for your particular celebration, location, and timing. I recommend calling or emailing the county you plan to get married in, just to make sure you understand exactly what you need to do ahead of your wedding day so that you can officially, and legally, be married after your elopement.
In general, Washington State has some pretty simple guidelines for getting married. A couple key things to know:
A reminder to always check the guidelines and requirements for your specific location that you plan to get married. For reference, King County has put together a wonderful step-by-step resource that lays everything out in a very easy to follow format!
Oregon also has pretty simple guidelines for getting married, and they are very similar to Washington:
A reminder to always check the guidelines and requirements for your specific location that you plan to get married. For reference, the Oregon State website has some info on Marriages in Oregon, and Multnomah County has a decent guide on marriage licenses (though be sure to check the specific county from which you plan to get your license).
The Pacific Northwest is a dazzling, one-of-a-kind region worthy of consideration for your destination elopement if you want a scenic, nature-connected, magical setting for your once-in-a-lifetime celebration. Whether you’re looking for forests, waterfalls, ocean, mountains, desert, or almost anything in between, you’ll probably find it here.
While this guide can serve as a great reference for planning a PNW destination elopement, I highly recommend checking out my location-specific guides for more detailed information on particular locations and regions.
With that, I wish you happy elopement planning!
P.S. Feeling overwhelmed? Don’t worry; you don’t have to do this all alone! Don’t hesitate to reach out if you’re looking for someone to help you plan your destination PNW elopement from afar, while also ensuring you get experience-focused documentation of your intimate wedding day. I’ve helped couples from all over the country elope in Washington and Oregon, and I’d love to hear what you’re dreaming!
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